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Books that Celebrate

Here are a selection SACRED SENSUAL SCIENCE books that are resources for the way to live from ones Erotic Essence.

Sacred Sexuality

Book cover for Urban Tantra by Barbara Carrellas showing a woman from behind she is naked and has a lotus and serpent tattoo on her lower back

Urban Tantra, Second Edition: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century by Barbara Carrellas

A illustrated book cover for Tao Tantric Arts for Women by Minke de Vos featuring a woman with long black hair seated in a lotus pose inside a pink lotus flower. She is wearing a white gown and holding another pink lotus flower

Tao Tantric Arts for Women: Cultivating Sexual Energy, Love, and Spirit by Minke de Vos

A book cover for Tantric Orgasm for Women by Diana Richardson with a naked male and female holding each other. The woman is higher than the man who has his cheek nestled against the womans breasts

Tantric Orgasm for Women by Diana Richardson


Come As You Are: Revised and Updated: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life by Emily Nagowski

Vagina: A New Biography by Naomi Wolf

Pussy: A Reclamation by Regena Thomashauer

Procreation and Menstruation:

Gentle Birth, Gentle Mothering: A Doctor’s Guide to Natural Childbirth and Gentle Early Parenting Choices by Sarah Buckley

Activate Your Female Power by Sharon Moloney


Women Who Run with the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype by Clarissa Pinkola Estés

Too Fat, Too Slutty, Too Loud: The Rise and Reign of the Unruly Woman by Anne Helen Petersen

Sex Work

Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry: A Self-Help Book for Sex Workers by Lola Davina

Seductress: Women Who Ravished the World and Their Lost Art of Love by Betsy Prioleau


Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage by Midori

Relationship and Sex

Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence by Esther Perel

Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What It Means for Modern Relationships by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jetha

A Billion Wicked Thoughts: What the Internet Tells Us About Sexual Relationships by Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam

A Billion Wicked Thoughts: What the Internet Tells Us About Sexual Relationships by Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam


The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der Kolk

Waking the Tiger: Healing Trauma by Peter Levine

The Art of Receiving and Giving: The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin D.C. and Robyn Dalzen

Sex Magick and Manifesting

Becoming Supernatural: How Common People Are Doing the Uncommon by Joe Dispenza

Dear Universe: 200 Mini-Meditations for Instant Manifestations by Sarah Prout

The Art of Sexual Magic: Cultivating Sexual Energy to Transform Your Life by Margo Anand

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